Valentine’s Day 6

February 4th, 2010

10 days to Valentine’s day, how many of you have had plans in your mind to surprise your partner? For my case, I don’t get to celebrate the day with my partner because on the 14th of February, it happens to be Chinese New Year, meaning both of us have to go back to our respective states to celebrate with our families.

Hence, we’re celebrating it tomorrow, as it marks our 5th month being together too. I need to point out that this entry is not to boast about my love life, there’s nothing to show off. But I just wanna talk about relationship in general.

love heart in red over a ink splat in black

When I see how some of my friends are still mourning over their break ups, I can’t help but to have a few questions in my head, one of them being… “Were you the reason why he dumped you?”

I had a bad breakup too, and it was really painful because I did not see it coming, and the reason given to me was lamer than lame. Upon doing some self evaluation, I realized that it’s not like we should blame ourselves all the time when people dumped us, sometimes you should even say it out loud, “You don’t deserve me!”, because I know what kind of person I am, whenever I’m in a relationship, I take it seriously, I’m ready to commit, I’m willing to give. Hence, I moved on and I’m with someone whom I believe will appreciate me and someone I can spend my life with. *Crosses fingers*

I have seen my friends taking relationship for granted, and the habit of saying “I wanna break up with you” over a tiny issue seems to be a hobby for them. I don’t understand, not everyone is privileged to find a companion in life, and then you have one, yet you prefer to abuse it. Why? Did you think that by threatening to break up with someone will make that person loves you more? For me, that kind of statement really hurts if it’s due to some tiny issues that can be resolved if 2 of us can just sit down and talk about it.

I always advise my friends to not say you want to break up just because you’re angry, say it when you’ve thought about it over and over again. Because I think people should really be responsible when they wanna get into a relationship, it’s never fun breaking someone’s heart and walk away happily finding another prey, I seriously believe in this thing called karma. Here you are thinking that it’s okay to play around, the minute you’re ready to settle down and commit, what if your partner finds it ok to break your heart? And this is why I always stick to my principles, I treasure my relationship so much like how I treasure my life, of course, my partner has to feel the same way too if we want this relationship to last.

I have a friend who does not know how to treat his girlfriend well, just because the girlfriend does some tiny mistakes, she will have to hear about how sick he felt about her and how he wants her out of his life. She was heartbroken, and this goes on and on and on until she snapped and left him. Who’s to blame? And the boy finally realizes how great she was, but it’s too late, he blew the opportunity himself.

So I wish all the lovers out there, when you guys can sit down and celebrate such happy occasion, talk about how lucky you feel to have each other and promise yourselves that you will cherish and appreciate each other too.

Happy Valentine’s Day to everyone in advance! =)

Nokia X6 Launch Party SUCKS! 11

January 30th, 2010

I gotta go hardcore on this one because I am still very pissed at how the event was held.

When people were buzzing about how the new Nokia X6 is going to be sold for RM66 to the lucky 66 persons, I was thrilled! I knew that not necessarily I’ll be the lucky one to get the phone but if I didn’t show up, I don’t even stand a chance right?

So because all we needed to do is to buy a pink / blue shirt, I bought a pink shirt and I was excited for the event, to be honest, not because I get to see Boys Like Girls (obviously I’m not a fan) but because of the phone. But as I’m typing this, I feel so ashamed of myself having to be “victimized” just for the sake of the phone.

The event will begin at 7pm, but I thought of going there earlier because I wouldn’t wanna be stuck in the jam. I reached around 4 something. It was raining heavily, and finding parking was difficult, YES! There was no parking space for the visitors.

So those who don’t have umbrellas would have to get soaked under the rain, and mind you, it was a heavy downpour, even with an umbrella, I was all wet.

And the best part is, we don’t get to go in until 6pm. So there’s nothing we can do but to wait because it’s not like there are restaurants around for us to get shelter.

Ok  I get it that it is a FREE event, but as an organizer, at least have the courtesy to give us colored wrist bands and then instruct us to enter different entrances according to the colors. But that’s not the case, there’s only ONE entrance and when they finally opened the gate. I have only one word to describe the situation.

CHAOTIC!!!

People started pushing their way in, I was squeezed and on many occasions I nearly fell but I managed to balance myself, I’ve seen people tripped and one girl even fell and hit her head on the steel bars. YES! It’s that messed up!

It was still raining, when we entered the gate, we were not allowed to go into the stadium. Meaning, we have to be soaked under the rain… AGAIN.

When we were lining up waiting for them to lift the curtains, one super cocky Nokia staff came out and asked us to move back 2 steps. Was he blind or stupid or both? Obviously people won’t go back two or even one step because of 2 reasons:

1. We didn’t even have much space to move!

2. Did he actually think that people want to move backwards to enjoy the rain?

So when the curtains are opened, people started marching in again, so it’s a second wave of being squeezed… Again, we’re not allowed to enter the stadium YET. And the best part, some idiots started throwing CAR STICKERS.

What’s wrong with throwing car stickers? People at the back thought they are giving away COUPONS TO BUY THE NOKIA X6 FOR RM66 and they kept pushing! While the idiots enjoy throwing car stickers at the crowd, the staff kept yelling “MOVE BACK!!! MOVE BACK!!!”.

Man where the hell is your common sense? HOW TO MOVE BACK when people thought you guys are giving away coupons?!

Then we heard someone announcing this on the microphone,

“If you guys keep pushing, we will CANCEL giving away the coupons.”

How the hell can that person say things like that? If he’s working in this field he would have expected people to start pushing, and this announcement is only audible to the front row, those at the back wouldn’t even hear it! Please check out the number of the participants thank you very much.

And I met some awesome people also think that the management sucks like hell and they are going to rant this shit on their blogs/Twitter blah blah blah.

When we were FINALLY allowed to get in, the security guard was yelling at us like we’re the prisoners, man what the heck is wrong with you? And they only opened a tiny space for people to go in one by one, and then people will start cutting queues to get in, so it’s another havoc.

I finally got into the stadium and I saw another long line, apparently people are queuing up to get the coupons to win the phone. Guess what? When I was about to reach them, they have finished giving away ALL the coupons.

3 hours of being soaked under the rain and this is what I get?

My mood was severely damaged and I walked out the stadium, I ain’t gonna stay for the performances because I don’t even stand a chance to win anything, so I went home instead.

I am sure you’ll get the chance to read about other people’s reviews and I’m going to say this, I’d rather spend RM2K+ to get the phone than to suffer in this condition. And to the organizers, you suck! Please don’t send out misleading information next time, let’s review the poster.

We were there early, and it’s you guys who are completely screwed up that messed up the whole system. We were queuing up obediently and it’s your fault how people would jump queue and ended up being able to get in first.

So yeah one last message to the organizer, “F*ck you!”

UPDATE:

More reasons why this event sucked. And this information is gathered from various sources:

  • Apparently there were 2 entrances, one was the official one and the other was meant for the exits but people could walk in freely, hence it was a question in my head when I was at the front row and when I got in, there were already many people ahead of me.
  • Some staffs actually mistakenly gave away the coupons to people who arrived much earlier. We were told that the coupon will be given away at 7pm but some people didn’t follow instructions well.
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Be Careful When People Play With Their Pen In Public 1

January 29th, 2010

Because you may never know when you’re being recorded. I’m not kidding, with the advancement of technology, anything can be made into a video camera, hence you will realize that nowadays, video cameras are getting smaller and smaller!

I came across this website (from Facebook’s advertisement) that sells this PEN called the “Spy Pen”, and yes, you can figure out what it does right? It has a hidden camcorder and you can store videos up to 4GB! Damn! Once you finish recording something/someone, you just need to plug it into a USB port to transfer the video,  fantastic isn’t it?

4GB Spy Pen

This snapshot is taken from this website.

One thing that baffled me is that the site is called “The Herbal Resource” but the items displayed are really freaky! At the right sidebar, it shows the list of “hot items”, and I’m gonna show you what it has, and some of the items are truly not user-friendly. Why?

For example, the first item is the so called “Hypnotizing perfume”, and they even included “not for criminal purposes” at the end of the product name because in the description, you’re supposed to spray it on yourself when you’re having trouble sleeping and it’ll work its magic.

Hypnotizing Perfume

You’d think this is scary, wait till you read about the second product, they named it in a funny way but I’d translate it as “Tame The Wild Child”, again, it says not for criminal purposes but hell it IS INDEED FOR CRIMINAL PURPOSES. Because once you come into contact with this liquid, it will cause you to faint, hallucinate and after that, you cannot remember what happened. So it makes kidnapping really easy isn’t it? Also, according to the description, you can command that person to do what you want him/her to do and he/she will obey!

I can’t go any further than this because I think the site is a heaven for many people who wanna commit various crimes, but of course it also has other weird stuff to recover MALE virginity and so on.

And now, I begin to feel bad for sharing with y’all this site but I’m only sharing because I was curious!

Nice People Are Everywhere! 0

January 25th, 2010

Have you ever take a peek in your life and figure out how thankful you are to be surrounded by really nice people? The reason I am writing this entry is because I feel that I’m really blessed to have these nice people around me. Hence, this is more like an entry of appreciation.

First of all I have to say that I’m blessed to have a very sweet lover who’s been there for me when I was at the brink of giving up knowing that I failed my paper for the second time, Sugar has been there to motivate me and make sure I’m walking on the right path. At least I know someone really cares about my future, this is just like my parents’ role. I said I’m blessed because not everyone will take up the bossy role and remind you that it’s time to do your revision and please do not fail again and set your goals properly. If your lover decides to concern about your welfare, please, it’s really invaluable. The reason I’m being very optimistic and motivated is because of Sugar, I have to be honest, the process of rebuilding my self-confidence was not easy but I’ve managed to stand up again. Thank you.

Second of all, my sisters who will never fail to cheer me up and crack really nonsensical jokes are the reason why I’m always in a cheerful mood. We will never run out of jokes and my sisters are my only best friends I have, I named it the “Trinity”, because 3 of us are the wackiest creatures and strangers would think we are constantly at war with each other but we know ourselves that the reason why we always verbally abuse each other is to ensure that our bond is strong. 99% of the time we can just talk shit to each other but if one of us has a problem, we will be there for each other. If anyone was to mess with either one of us, we will be there for each other, and plot to assassinate that person. :P

Third of all, one of my lecturers who is helping me to clear my paper is the person I really need to mention here. He lent me his handwritten notes to photocopy and he’s willing to guide me. Not every lecturer will be so dedicated, he offered me advices that will range from studies to life to my future career. Just like Sugar, my lecturer uses a witty way to motivate me, and when I got hold of his notes, I really find them useful and I realized there are many things I don’t even know! But luckily I sought help earlier and I believe that I will be able to clear this paper with better results.

Fourthly, this is dedicated to my friends (from college or Facebook) who showered me with kind words to encourage me. I’m thankful because of your existence, and I’m also grateful for not having a stuck-up attitude.

Just by thinking of how lucky I am to be surrounded by these nice people really puts a smile on my face. So go on people! Think about who have been really nice to you in your life and write about it. It’ll make you feel good!

Stop Your Hypocrisy, Please 4

January 22nd, 2010

Here’s something I need to get off my chest, I am totally disgusted by how some friends who would come up to me and badmouth somebody and the next thing you know, they are getting so close with that somebody. And then you’ll start to think, “Oh no, will that somebody know what I’ve been saying?”

Don’t think any further, that somebody will have a high chance of knowing what you have been ’sharing’ and he’ll also hear about things you did not say. All this because of your friend is acting like a big time hypocrite and you’re trapped!

I live with many principles, one of them is that if there’s someone I don’t like, I won’t associate myself with it. And that also depends on the extent of how much I dislike that person, if I have to burn the bridge, I don’t mind doing it, if I don’t have to do it, then we still can talk to each other, but keep it at the minimum. Because you won’t possibly hear me asking you out for lunch when I’m alone or shop together because I’m bored.

What really saddens me is that I have friends who seem to enjoy being two-faced. And it further pains me to call them my ‘friends’. But I guess after writing this entry, I will then make my decision to keep a distance with them. I have nothing to lose after all.

So yeah, I used to tweet about how much I dislike, and then I had people who seem to really care about me asking me about the person I’m talking about. I was contemplating if I should reveal the name, but I did because I thought I could trust that so called ‘friend’ of mine. Yes it’s all my fault for having a big mouth too, I could have kept my mouth shut but I chose to share it because she wasn’t really nice when it comes to that subject too.

The conversation was a short one but it gave me the impression that “Oh yes, great minds think alike.”…

After some time, I notice this friend and that person I don’t like start talking like buddies. And I know myself well, I don’t badmouth someone without facts, I don’t spread rumors, if it’s a real experience I will tell it without fear, now these 2 people are good friends now, and it’s not because I’m scared what my friend will tell that person what I said, I’m scared of my friend!

In my head it’s all about “Why are you doing this? You told me bad stuff about her and now you are her best friend?”, but it’s all good, not that I’m very close with that friend but at least I learned my lessons:

1) I should keep to myself about people I dislike.

2) My friend is a bitch.

Ok I am betraying myself if I still call her my friend. No way I’m gonna acknowledge her as my friend, and it’s easy for me to stop talking to her because she’s a friend with some of my enemies, so everything is going to be convenient. I’m not gonna talk much to her, and I’m not going to even wanna watch her show, what? A show? Yes, she’s a good actress and her life is a movie, so I’m just gonna get my remote control and press the “OFF” button. And off you go bitch, out of my head.

I don’t care how popular you are but if you still wanna pester me with your shitty acting skill, I will show your friends your true color, after all, the proof lies with me. So let’s be clear to each other, you don’t step on my tail, I won’t ruffle your feathers.

Angry duck

Yes that’s basically how I felt when I knew you’re a hypocrite towards me when you still proudly referred me as your good friend.

Restart 8

January 20th, 2010

My handful of readers would realize that most of the previous entries from this blog are gone. Yes, I decided to delete them, and the best part is, I couldn’t find a better reason for it. I felt that I needed to start afresh, but I’m still thinking of new ideas. Should this blog be a niche blog? Because I already have one.

The other day I was just thinking to myself, should I even close this site down? I mean, I don’t even have readers, and I’m paying for the domain fees when people are not reading this blog at all. I might as well just move to a free blogging platform.

Back in the days when I was quite known in the Malaysian blogosphere, I thought it’s cool to curse and swear like a wild child in my blog, flaming people yada yada… But now I have also made a decision to make a change, yes this site is called “Bad Boy Is Me”, but I don’t have to be a complete asshole in my blog. I’d like to create a contradiction in my website. Maybe that’ll sound really fun?

Even when I’m writing this, I know not many people will even wanna pay attention to it, so I’ll take it as a monologue then. I’m going to share with the world my views about certain topics, I refuse to transform myself into an attention whore who always wants to appear in major events and have my pictures pasted all over the website, I want to be a writer.

Every now and then I will talk about certain topics and I’d like to engage into discussion with my readers who are kind enough to spend some time reading my articles. Even if nobody wants to be part of it, at least there’s a platform where I can share my thoughts instead of talking trash about certain people.

Ok enough of this brief re-introduction of this site, I’m going to think of something to talk about. Cheers!

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