10 days to Valentine’s day, how many of you have had plans in your mind to surprise your partner? For my case, I don’t get to celebrate the day with my partner because on the 14th of February, it happens to be Chinese New Year, meaning both of us have to go back to our respective states to celebrate with our families.
Hence, we’re celebrating it tomorrow, as it marks our 5th month being together too. I need to point out that this entry is not to boast about my love life, there’s nothing to show off. But I just wanna talk about relationship in general.

When I see how some of my friends are still mourning over their break ups, I can’t help but to have a few questions in my head, one of them being… “Were you the reason why he dumped you?”
I had a bad breakup too, and it was really painful because I did not see it coming, and the reason given to me was lamer than lame. Upon doing some self evaluation, I realized that it’s not like we should blame ourselves all the time when people dumped us, sometimes you should even say it out loud, “You don’t deserve me!”, because I know what kind of person I am, whenever I’m in a relationship, I take it seriously, I’m ready to commit, I’m willing to give. Hence, I moved on and I’m with someone whom I believe will appreciate me and someone I can spend my life with. *Crosses fingers*
I have seen my friends taking relationship for granted, and the habit of saying “I wanna break up with you” over a tiny issue seems to be a hobby for them. I don’t understand, not everyone is privileged to find a companion in life, and then you have one, yet you prefer to abuse it. Why? Did you think that by threatening to break up with someone will make that person loves you more? For me, that kind of statement really hurts if it’s due to some tiny issues that can be resolved if 2 of us can just sit down and talk about it.
I always advise my friends to not say you want to break up just because you’re angry, say it when you’ve thought about it over and over again. Because I think people should really be responsible when they wanna get into a relationship, it’s never fun breaking someone’s heart and walk away happily finding another prey, I seriously believe in this thing called karma. Here you are thinking that it’s okay to play around, the minute you’re ready to settle down and commit, what if your partner finds it ok to break your heart? And this is why I always stick to my principles, I treasure my relationship so much like how I treasure my life, of course, my partner has to feel the same way too if we want this relationship to last.
I have a friend who does not know how to treat his girlfriend well, just because the girlfriend does some tiny mistakes, she will have to hear about how sick he felt about her and how he wants her out of his life. She was heartbroken, and this goes on and on and on until she snapped and left him. Who’s to blame? And the boy finally realizes how great she was, but it’s too late, he blew the opportunity himself.
So I wish all the lovers out there, when you guys can sit down and celebrate such happy occasion, talk about how lucky you feel to have each other and promise yourselves that you will cherish and appreciate each other too.
Happy Valentine’s Day to everyone in advance! =)











